Information overload
An endless sea of profiles driven by attraction and dopamine.
Don’t marry
a stranger.
Intimate relationships are a prime source of meaning and happiness. Why not invest up front for the best possible outcome? We bring perspective, objectivity, and a model for dating success in the digital age.
- The waVe dating model
- Perspective and objectivity
- Guided by Dr. Thomas Lucking
Digital dating has changed everything.
It’s never been easier to meet people, and never harder to choose well:
Curated partial truths
Profiles that show only the best angles.
Wasted time and energy
Dates that don’t lead anywhere meaningful.
Dehumanizing
A process that can leave you feeling like a product.
The numbers are discouraging.
The divorce rate hovers near 50%, and fewer than 20% of couples who stay together truly thrive. Yet millions keep searching for the next perfect relationship.
Is it possible to take the best of digital dating and add a layer of humanity? We believe it is.
“Your future partner will thank you for it.”— Dr. Thomas Lucking
waVe dating: with a Vision we all excel.
Dating can’t be reduced to a formula, but it shouldn’t be pure emotion either. waVe dating integrates head and heart, in two phases of three parts each.
Know yourself
Learn what you want in a relationship before jumping onto the next app.
Filter with a plan
Manage potential partners and narrow them to the few who meet your criteria.
Stay grounded
Objective support so strong attachment emotions and false intimacy don’t derail you.
Dr. Thomas Lucking will guide you through each phase of the waVe process.
Questions about dating coaching.
Dating support is usually coaching: practical, goal-focused, and forward-looking.
Yes. Dr. Lucking’s book How to Improve Your Social Skills covers dating, and we support neurodivergent adults in finding lasting relationships.
We are not an emergency service. Call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, free and available 24/7. If someone is in immediate danger, call 911.
Start with a plan.
Reach your goals faster and set yourself up for long-term success.
Emily Brown, Client Care CoordinatorSchedule a consultation with Emily to be matched with the right therapist or coach for your needs and your timeframe.Individuals · In person in Los Gatos and by telehealth