Ross MacPhee, MA, AMFTCouples, family conflict, and relationship repair.
Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist offering therapy for individuals and couples by telehealth and in person in Los Gatos and Saratoga. Practices under the supervision of Dr. Thomas Lucking, PhD, LMFT.
- AMFT #140633
- Telehealth · Los Gatos · Saratoga

About Ross
Specialties include couples counseling, family conflict, relationship issues, parenting, and divorce.
Many couples come to therapy feeling stuck in cycles of conflict or disconnection they can’t break on their own. Communication feels strained—partners may talk but not feel heard, or avoid hard conversations, leading to resentment. One or both may feel their needs for connection, trust, intimacy, or shared goals aren’t met. Over time, unresolved conflicts and unmet expectations create distance, leaving couples wondering how the relationship got off track and if rebuilding is possible.
I understand how painful it is to feel disconnected from the person you care about most, especially when attempts to fix things seem to make them worse. Many couples feel stuck in the same arguments or like they’re speaking different languages.
Together, we’ll uncover the patterns keeping you stuck, rebuild trust, and create a path to deeper connection.
Relationships can be challenging, especially when disconnection or unresolved issues leave you feeling frustrated or alone.
It’s understandable to feel unsure about the path forward, but there is hope. I’m here to provide a compassionate, supportive space to help you navigate these struggles and rebuild connection.
Specialties & approach
The areas Ross focuses on, the methods Ross draws from, and who Ross works with.
Specialties
- Couples Counseling
- Family Conflict
- Relationship Issues
- Parenting
- Divorce
Approaches
- Emotionally Focused
- Family/Marital Therapy
- Family Systems
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Dialectical (DBT)
Works with
- Individuals
- Couples
- Adults (24+)
- Elders (65+)
A practical first step, without pressure.
Start with a free consultation with our care team. Mention Ross by name, and we will help you take the next step.
Request a free consultation- License
- Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #140633 (supervised)
- Supervision
- Dr. Thomas Lucking, PhD, LMFT
- Format
- Telehealth (video); in person in Los Gatos and Saratoga
- Languages
- English
- Clients
- Individuals and couples; adults and elders
- Fees
- Individual session (53 min) $250; Couples/family session $275; Executive Coaching $500
- Consultation
- Free introductory consultation
- Pronouns
- He/Him/His
Questions before you begin.
Starting therapy is personal. These are a few practical things you may want to know first.
Ross works with individuals and couples, including adults (24+) and elders (65+).
Ross is a registered associate marriage and family therapist in California and practices under the supervision of Dr. Thomas Lucking, PhD, LMFT, as California requires for registered associates.
Ross offers telehealth (video) appointments and in-person sessions in Los Gatos and Saratoga.
Listed fees: Individual session (53 min) $250; Couples/family session $275; Executive Coaching $500. See fees & insurance for out-of-network reimbursement, HSA/FSA, and sliding scale options.
Request a free consultation through the Alira Family Therapy consultation calendar and mention Ross by name.
This practice is not an emergency service. Call or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, free and available 24/7. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
You can begin with questions.
You don't need to have everything figured out before reaching out. A free consultation is a chance to ask questions and see whether working with Ross feels like the right fit.